HAPPY NEW YEAR

I didn't make it until midnight - went to sleep...and the sight of millions of people crammed into Times Square filled me with anything but enthusiasm! Perhaps it is simply being in a wheelchair and knowing that when I am in a crowd, all I see are butts! Still, I awoke this morning with that wonderful, positive feeling that a new year always brings. It is like a great "do-over" - a chance for things to turn around for everyone - a terrific day of hope and promise - a "breather" from all the negativity that collects during the year. I try very hard not to consider the possibility that this will most likely be short-lived. For today - it is great. Which brings me to today's Dear Abby column. I just loved these resolutions and will reprint them here for you in case you missed them.

JUST FOR TODAY: I will live through this day only. I will not brood about yesterday or obsess about tomorrow. I will not set far-reaching goals or try to overcome all of my problems at once. I know that I can do something for 24 hours that would overwhelm me if I had to keep it up for a lifetime.

JUST FOR TODAY: I will be happy. I will not dwell on thoughts that depress me. If my mind fills with clouds, I will chase them away and fill it with sunshine.

JUST FOR TODAY: I will accept what is. I will face reality. I will correct those things I can correct and accept those I cannot.

JUST FOR TODAY: I will improve my mind. I will read something that requires effort, thought and concentration. I will not be a mental loafer.

JUST FOR TODAY: I will make a conscious effort to be agreeable. I will be kind and courteous to those who cross my path, and I'll not speak ill of others. I will improve my appearance, speak softly, and not interrupt when someone else is talking. Just for today, I will refrain from improving anybody but myself.

JUST FOR TODAY: I will do something positive to improve my health. If I am a smoker, I'll quit. If I am overweight, I will eat healthfully - if only just for today. And not only that, I will get off the couch and take a brisk walk, even if it is only around the block.

JUST FOR TODAY: I will gather the courage to do what is right and take responsibility for my own actions.

(copyright Universal Press Syndicate)

Maybe some of these thoughts will inspire and motivate each of us to carry the hope we feel today throughout this new year - one day at a time.

Have a wonderful day!